Shout out to my lone wolf sisters!
I get it. I can be a total loner. Sure way I can pinpoint a loner.
Have you ever said you had plans to go do something, but in reality, you wanted to be home by yourself in your jammies hanging with your dog?
Yep, me too.
As important as it is to take time to be in solitude, it’s equally as important to be in relationship with others and develop a tight-knit group of friends that have your back.
Aka your Ride or Dies.
You strive for connection because it’s coded into your DNA.
We live in a world now where we can connect with anyone, anywhere, at any time… yet many of us feel lonelier than ever.
A few years ago, I desired a tribe of my own, a stronghold of sisterhood.
Now I want to help you find a tribe of your own, .
What does look like?
Well, the first thing I need you to do is examine your roadblocks. What’s preventing you from finding community?
For me, it was avoiding that feeling of loneliness.
The other day I talked about acknowledging your feelings and letting them go, remember?
That’s exactly what I did here.
I let the loneliness surface, didn’t make myself wrong for it, then it was time to let it go.
Once that happened, it was time to ask myself, What do I want?
You have to think about what the purpose is, and what your intentions are.
You have to determine what type of person do you want to connect with.
You may want to build friendships based on support, kindness, spirituality, passion.
The people who are meant to come into your life will be there. The ones who are meant to establish a friendship with you will stick around.
The abundance mindset comes into play here.
There are plenty of people in this world that would love to join your community.
They are also seeking you out. They will find you, I promise.
If you’re still struggling with how to find your tribe, you’re more than welcome to message me here.
You’ve got this!